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The Power of Choice In Online Personals World

Last time we talked about the difference between "I can" and "I won't". Today I am going to teach you how to use the distinction between the two to empower yourself.
Something I've learned over the years as a dating coach is that it is very tough to "force" a student to do something.
For example, if I were to say to a student, "You MUST flirt with sugar babies from now on," that student will usually give me a lot of resistance before he gives in.
But if I were to tell him, "Okay. You DON'T have to flirt with sugar babies on all Online personals sites. But if you keep on getting the same results you've been getting all your life because you're not flirting at all, then that's it's a choice you have made. You don't want to be successful with sugar babies and I respect your choice..."
All of a sudden, the student becomes a LOT more eager to flirt because he has been given a choice that HE can make!
Here's how you can use this principle to help yourself.
Next time you tell yourself that you "can't" do something, rephrase it as an "I won't" statement. Next, tell yourself that you "won't do it" because you "don't want to." Then weight the benefits of NOT doing something against the benefits of doing it. Confirm once again that you do NOT Want the positive benefits of performing the action and that you ARE happy with the negative consequences of NOT doing it. (Or the other way around if you do change your mind.)

Tip : Either way, by becoming responsible for your own actions, you're going to feel strangely empowered!